Why does my ex always shout at me? Ive moved on.

When a couple split up, the first few months are often raw especially if the partner left behind did not end the relationship. Most ex-partners say a derogatory comment at some time about their ex-partner. However, some can’t come to terms with the breakup, and need to blame someone usually the partner that has left. They portray the hurt they are feeling, by using their ex, as a target, they cannot see their part in the broken relationship. These people are not likely to change, so don’t try, but become aware of certain tactics to use to diffuse the situation and not make things worse than they already are.